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Pain of Codependency

The codependent is often angry and full of self-pity because the dependents do not appreciate the sacrifices the codependent is making for them.

The codependent has low self-esteem and therefore needs others to validate his/her worth. The addict in the codependent's life "needs" them, making the coaddict feel needed and wanted, even when being used and abused.

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